Upon My Arrival
Please place consideration in an open envelope in plain site. Regardless of whether we meet in private or public, it's to be exchanged within the first 5 minutes. When meeting in public please use discretion by placing consideration within a card envelope, gift bag, or book. In any situation, please do not make me ask for it as that is always in poor taste, ruins the mood, and leads me to feel uncomfortable.
I am primarily cash only. Especially with first time clients unless otherwise discussed AND agreed upon in advance.
Under NO circumstances do I ever accept Paypal or Venmo. If a deposit is made please assume the remainder due is to be paid in cash.
If an in-date extension is made, the additional amount is to be provided immediately, there are no exceptions.
When booking please keep in mind that I prefer longer dates so that we are unrushed and have more time to let the date progress organically. Dates 3 hrs or longer require a meal or outing of some nature. I will always show up as my best. I pay great attention to cleanliness so please take note that you are freshly showered, and have good dental hygiene as well. If I am visiting your home or hotel please ensure that the premises is clean and free of excessive pet hair.
If you wish to lose my immediate respect one of the fastest ways is with "carrot-dangling" behavior with future promises of any sort. Generally speaking we all know what such behaviors consist of. Even if intended to be genuine, please speak with action instead. Another way is by speaking poorly of other providers, or making comparisons to them as a means of manipulation.
I'm letting you know about my likes and dislikes so you can best evaluate if we are compatible. I don't appreciate invasive and overly personal questions. Please respect my privacy and the importance of how it relates to my safety. I absolutely despise behaviors that are domineering, manipulative, or pretentious. The only partial exception for a braggart is when your actions are displaying a real time, outstanding benefit to the person sharing company with you.
As a health conscious individual it isn't practical for me to accept a drink every time I am offered one. If by chance I pass on having a drink please don't take offense nor feel as though you need to refrain as well.
Going the extra mile
Gifts are never mandatory. If by chance you end up feeling extra generous or would like to make an exceptional impression, you can visit my wish list here. A surprise gift is highly appreciated and greatly rewarded. It's a sure way to make my day.
If you have any additional questions or concerns, feel free to ask upon inquiry.